Asking for a raise is one of the highest-return actions you can take in your career — a 10% raise today compounds into hundreds of thousands of dollars over a 30-year career. The barrier is rarely the money; it is the preparation and the discomfort of the conversation.
Build your case before you ask
The three-part raise argument
A raise request that sticks has three components:
- Market evidence — what the external market pays for your role
- Performance evidence — what you have delivered that justifies the increase
- The specific ask — a number, not a range
Managers approve raises more easily when they can take a written justification to HR or their own manager. Your job is to give them that ammunition.
How to research your market rate
| Source | What to look for |
|---|---|
| Glassdoor | Salaries for your exact title in your city |
| LinkedIn Salary | Peer-submitted data with demographic filters |
| Robert Half Salary Guide | Canada-specific guides by role and city |
| Job postings (competitors) | Roles similar to yours — note any salary ranges listed |
| Network conversations | The most accurate data; ask peers at other companies |
Build a summary: “Based on [three sources], the market rate for a [title] with [X years experience] in [city] is $[range]. I am currently at $[current salary], which is $X below the midpoint.”
Document your accomplishments
Before the meeting, write down your contributions since your last raise or review:
| Category | Examples to document |
|---|---|
| Revenue / sales impact | “Closed $X in new business” or “Grew territory revenue by X%” |
| Cost savings | “Identified process change saving $X per year” |
| Scope expansion | “Took on [project/team/responsibility] without salary adjustment” |
| Retention / risk | “Onboarded and trained 3 new hires” |
| Efficiency | “Reduced [process] time from X to Y” |
| Above-and-beyond | “Covered manager role for 3 months during vacancy” |
Quantify every accomplishment you can. “Managed a project” is weak. “Delivered the product launch 2 weeks early, contributing to $500K in Q1 revenue” is strong.
Timing your request
| Timing | Assessment |
|---|---|
| 4–6 weeks before annual review | Best — manager is building their case for budgets |
| During quarterly check-in | Good — tied to recent accomplishments |
| Immediately after a major win | Good — momentum and recency are working for you |
| Right after a promotion | Bad — just received a raise equivalent; wait 6–12 months |
| During company-wide budget freeze | Poor timing — not impossible, but lower success rate |
| Without notice (ambush in a meeting) | Never — always schedule time in advance |
How to ask: the exact conversation
Step 1: Request a dedicated meeting
Send a calendar invite or ask in person:
“I’d like to set up a time to discuss my compensation — do you have 20–30 minutes in the next couple of weeks?”
Do not say “ask for a raise” upfront or it gives your manager time to prepare a defensive position.
Step 2: Open the conversation
“I wanted to talk about my compensation. Over the past [period], I’ve [top 2–3 accomplishments]. I’ve also done some market research, and for someone with my experience and responsibilities in [city], the going rate is around $[X]. I’m currently at $[current], and I’d like to discuss getting to $[target].”
Pause. Let them respond.
Step 3: Handle the response
If they ask “why do you think you deserve that?”
Return to your accomplishment list. Give two specific examples with numbers. Then restate your market research.
If they say “let me think about it”
“Of course — when would be a good time to revisit this? I want to make sure we have a timeline.” Pin down a specific date.
If they say yes
“Thank you — I really appreciate it. Can you confirm the new amount and effective date in writing?”
If they say no without a clear reason
“I understand. Can you help me understand what I’d need to achieve to earn a raise, and what that timeline looks like?”
What to do when the answer is no
A no is not always permanent. Clarify the reason:
| Reason given | Your follow-up |
|---|---|
| Budget freeze / timing | “When does the budget open up? Can we schedule a conversation for [month]?” |
| “Performance not there yet” | “What specific things do I need to demonstrate? Can we agree on milestones?” |
| “Not in our pay band” | “Is there a path to a higher band, or a way to expand my role to justify it?” |
| “We can’t exceed the range” | “Can we look at a bonus, extra vacation, or other elements of compensation?” |
| No reason given | “I want to give this my best — can you help me understand the factors that matter most?” |
A well-handled no keeps the door open. A poorly handled no (anger, ultimatums you don’t follow through on) closes it.
What a raise costs vs. what it earns you
The compounding math of a raise is significant:
| Starting salary | 10% raise | Difference at 5 years (3% annual raises after) | Difference at 20 years |
|---|---|---|---|
| $60,000 | +$6,000 | ~$33,000 cumulative | ~$158,000 cumulative |
| $80,000 | +$8,000 | ~$44,000 cumulative | ~$211,000 cumulative |
| $100,000 | +$10,000 | ~$55,000 cumulative | ~$264,000 cumulative |
A single successful raise conversation is worth more than most annual savings targets.