Before Moving In: Financial Conversations
| Topic |
Questions to Discuss |
| Income |
What does each person earn? |
| Debt |
Any student loans, credit card debt, car loans? |
| Savings |
How much does each person have saved? |
| Spending habits |
Saver vs. spender? Budget preferences? |
| Financial goals |
Down payment? Travel? Retirement timeline? |
| Credit score |
Any credit issues? |
| Existing obligations |
Child support? Family financial responsibilities? |
How to Split Expenses
Method 1: 50/50 Split
| Feature |
Details |
| How it works |
Everything split equally |
| Best for |
Similar incomes |
| Pros |
Simple, clear, no calculations |
| Cons |
Unfair if incomes are very different |
Method 2: Proportional to Income
| Feature |
Details |
| How it works |
Each contributes same % of income |
| Best for |
Different incomes |
| Example |
If Partner A earns $80K and Partner B earns $50K: A pays 62%, B pays 38% |
| Pros |
Feels fair, accounts for income differences |
| Cons |
Slightly more complex |
Example: $3,000/month total expenses
| Partner |
Income |
Share |
Monthly Contribution |
| Partner A |
$80,000 |
62% |
$1,860 |
| Partner B |
$50,000 |
38% |
$1,140 |
Method 3: One Pays Fixed Costs, Other Pays Variable
| Partner A |
Partner B |
| Rent |
Groceries |
| Insurance |
Dining out |
| Internet |
Household supplies |
| Utilities |
Entertainment |
Method 4: Yours, Mine, and Ours
| Account |
Purpose |
Funding |
| Joint account |
Shared expenses (rent, utilities, groceries) |
Both contribute proportionally |
| Partner A’s account |
Personal spending, savings, individual debts |
Partner A’s remaining income |
| Partner B’s account |
Personal spending, savings, individual debts |
Partner B’s remaining income |
Setting Up Shared Finances
Joint Bank Account Options
| Option |
Pros |
Cons |
| Joint chequing |
Easy bill payment |
Full access to each other’s money |
| Separate accounts + Splitwise |
Independence |
Manual tracking |
| Joint + individual accounts |
Best of both |
More accounts to manage |
| Joint credit card |
Shared rewards |
Shared liability |
Shared Expense Budget Template
| Expense |
Monthly Cost |
Partner A |
Partner B |
| Rent |
$2,200 |
$1,364 |
$836 |
| Utilities |
$150 |
$93 |
$57 |
| Internet |
$80 |
$50 |
$30 |
| Groceries |
$800 |
$496 |
$304 |
| Household supplies |
$100 |
$62 |
$38 |
| Tenant insurance |
$40 |
$25 |
$15 |
| Total |
$3,370 |
$2,090 (62%) |
$1,280 (38%) |
Common-Law Implications by Province
When You Become Common-Law
| Purpose |
Timeline |
| CRA (federal taxes) |
12 months of cohabitation |
| CPP survivor benefits |
12 months |
| Ontario (property rights) |
No automatic property rights* |
| BC (family property) |
2 years (same as married) |
| Alberta (family property) |
3 years of interdependence |
| Quebec |
No common-law regime (need contract) |
| Manitoba |
3 years (or 1 year with a child) |
| Saskatchewan |
2 years |
*Ontario common-law partners do NOT have equal property division rights unless they have a cohabitation agreement.
Tax Implications of Common-Law
| Change |
Impact |
| Filing status |
Must declare common-law on tax return |
| GST/HST credit |
Combined income may reduce or eliminate credit |
| CCB |
Combined family income reduces benefit |
| Spousal tax credit |
Available if partner earns under ~$15,000 |
| TFSA/RRSP |
Spousal RRSP becomes available |
| OAS/GIS (seniors) |
Combined income calculation |
Becoming common-law can reduce government benefits if combined income pushes you above thresholds. Budget accordingly.
Cohabitation Agreement
What It Covers
| Topic |
What to Include |
| Property brought into relationship |
Who owns what |
| Property acquired together |
How it’s divided if separating |
| Contributions to mortgage/home |
How equity is split |
| Debt responsibility |
Who pays what debts |
| Spousal support |
Waiver or terms |
| Pet ownership |
Who keeps pets |
| Dispute resolution |
Mediation before litigation |
Cost
| Service |
Cost |
| Online template (basic) |
$100-$300 |
| Lawyer-drafted (simple) |
$1,500-$3,000 |
| Lawyer-drafted (complex) |
$3,000-$5,000 |
| Each person needs independent counsel |
$500-$1,000 each |
A cohabitation agreement is especially important if:
- One partner owns property
- There is a significant income or asset difference
- You are buying property together
- One partner is giving up career/income to move
- You live in Ontario or Quebec (limited common-law rights)
Renting Together
Lease Considerations
| Factor |
Recommendation |
| Both names on lease |
Yes — protects both parties |
| Only one name on lease |
Risky for the unlisted partner |
| Sub-let clause |
Important if one person moves out |
| Lease-breaking costs |
Understand penalties (typically 2 months rent) |
Tenant Insurance
| Option |
Cost |
Details |
| Joint policy |
$30-$50/month |
Both partners covered |
| Separate policies |
$15-$30/month each |
Independent coverage |
| Recommendation |
Joint policy |
Cheaper, covers shared belongings |
Buying Property Together (Unmarried)
Ownership Options
| Type |
How Divided |
Survivorship |
| Joint tenancy |
Equal shares |
Passes to survivor automatically |
| Tenants in common |
Can be unequal (e.g., 60/40) |
Passes to estate (not partner) |
Protect Yourself
| Document |
Purpose |
| Cohabitation agreement |
Outlines property division |
| Co-ownership agreement |
Specifies each person’s equity share |
| Life insurance |
Covers mortgage if partner dies |
| Will |
Ensures property goes to partner |
| Power of attorney |
Healthcare and financial decisions |
Money Fights to Avoid
| Common Conflict |
Solution |
| Different spending habits |
Agree on a shared budget, keep personal accounts |
| Unequal income |
Use proportional contributions, not 50/50 |
| Hidden debt |
Disclose all debts before moving in |
| Freeloading (one partner not contributing) |
Written agreement on contributions |
| Gifts to family |
Agree on limits for family financial support |
| Major purchases without consulting |
Set a threshold (e.g., discuss anything over $200) |
Financial Checklist Before Moving Day
| Task |
Done? |
| Have the money talk (income, debts, goals) |
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| Agree on expense-splitting method |
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| Set up joint account (or choose tracking method) |
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| Get tenant insurance |
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| Both names on lease (if renting) |
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| Consider cohabitation agreement |
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| Update address (CRA, banks, employer) |
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| Update emergency contacts |
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| Set a shared budget |
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| Discuss savings goals |
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| Share WiFi/streaming/subscription costs |
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| Plan for the worst: what if it doesn’t work out? |
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